Wednesday, December 14, 2011

Relationship Success with Your Book with Guest Blogger: Stephan Labossiere



Welcome author and relationship expert,
Stephan Labossiere, to the Book Boost!



Here's what he had to say...


It’s Not Their Book, It’s YOUR Book.


So you finally achieved your dream of publishing a book. It has been a long time coming, and you are just happy and relieved to finally complete this project. You’re excited to get people to read your work, and you continuously envision become a best seller and have great success. Then you realize you still have a lot of work to do. This book is not just going to sell itself. Proper promotion has to be put in place to really get this moving. You figure getting things started shouldn’t be too hard because maybe you have a publisher who you think will help. Maybe you have a connection or two that may be able to get your book in the right place. Maybe you just have a large group of friends and family and you’re sure they will support you and get your book to the top.


Guess what? It is not enough. Yes, those things I mentioned above can contribute to your success, but you can’t just count on that. Your book may be amazing, and have a catchy title, but still you can't rest your head on that. At the end of day your books success will be determined on how much YOU push it and how much of the necessary work YOU put in. All the tips and tricks in the world can’t help you if you do not take the time to implement them. All the possible connections are pointless if you don’t stay on top of things and present yourself properly.


I see many people that think "now that the book is out, let me the sit back and let the greatness of the book pull people in." You’re in an industry that has millions of other people putting out “greatness” what makes you think that doing just that will be enough? You have got to be focused, determined, and believe in your work. This also means that just because things do not go as planned early on that you abandon the whole project. There are so many success stories of people who had to struggle to have their work accepted, but they kept pushing and eventually had their breakthrough.


There are so many ways to promote your book and get the exposure you need to put you on the path to success. You can blog, use a press release distribution service, set up blog tours, book signings, social networking, and more. No matter which route you decide to take, it will still come down to one important factor and that is YOU. You can’t rely on the idea that everyone is going to help you out, you must help yourself out first and then you will see more people that will be willing to lend a hand. This is nobody’s books but yours, so believe in what you set out to do and hold yourself accountable for what needs to be done.


A Note from the Book Boost: Promotion for your book is hard work indeed--perhaps the toughest part of the industry today. Wish you much success on your tour and thanks for joining us today at the Boost!


Blurb:

“Just tell me yes…”, is exactly what men all over the world are thinking when they are desperately trying to get intimate with their wives, but are only met with excuse after excuse and rejection after rejection.

Women typically want their men to just “know” what they want or figure it out on their own; so men are left being set up to fail because they are near clueless in regards to what their women are truly looking for. Due to not truly understanding women, both men and women are left with a lack of intimacy and ultimately unfulfilling relationships.

“How to get a married woman to have sex with you…….if you’re her husband” is a revealing book that seeks to bring to light what a lot of women don’t tell their husbands. It is designed to offer a look into what women really need from their men, and help men be better husbands while also getting the sexual benefits they are desperately hoping for.


Excerpt:


One of the biggest reasons that leave men wishing they could turn back the hands of time is LACK OF SEX!

Now I bolded that word to make sure that any women reading would truly get that this is urgent. I mean really, if you don’t give your husband some action soon his “friend” might just wither away and turn to dust, and that’s just not nice women. Really, this is an important issue that a lot of marriages are faced with, and to be honest with you most men have just accepted that it’s a part of the program.

They have utterly given up on trying to figure this out. They honestly start to believe that their wives just don’t like sex and there is nothing they can do about it. Well I’m here to tell you there is hope. In this book lies the key, or shall I say keys to unlocking this mystery. Before we get into showing you the light at the end of the tunnel I think there are some important things you’re going to have to realize before we continue.

1. Fear Is Powerful: No I am not trying to insinuate using scare tactics to get the results that you want. Though she may be prone to doing this (ex: withholding sex, threatening to poison your meals) it is not the route you should take. What I am referring to here is that whether you realize it or not and whether she has accepted it or not, a lot of women are scared. Scared to open up and completely let you into her heart.

Some of you may be saying, but I thought this was just about sex. NEWS FLASH: Sex for a lot of women isn’t that simple. We can debate whether it should or shouldn’t be, but the fact remains this is the reality in a lot of situations. Her fear of exposing herself and therefore putting herself in a vulnerable position is neither appealing nor is it comfortable. She may have been through emotionally traumatizing experiences or simply have a negative view of men based on what she has seen or heard. The truth is a lot of women believe that a man doing something to hurt them is inevitable and they will take whatever necessary precautions to protect themselves.

Being her husband does not exempt you from this belief so don’t think you’re different. Just understand this issue so that you may approach things properly, and delicately. You can never personally remove the fear from her yourself; it will be on her to do that. You can however, help to decrease or completely eliminate it over time. This book will help you with some of those aspects, but you must have patience.



Want More Stephan?

Visit his website here: www.stephanl.com

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